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“I am so sorry for your loss. Pam and I were friends for many years. I was just told you were gone. I am sorry to have missed your farewell. We...Read More »
1 of 17 | Posted by: WENDY LINK FORD - CHESAPEKE, VA

“Sarah and family - we are so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter. I know that you will miss her in your lives. Thinking of you at this time. ...Read More »
2 of 17 | Posted by: Ann Nichols - Holly Springs, NC

“To the Family, So very sorry to hear that Pam lost her battle with cancer. I know she fought hard. We were tough as teenagers and we never lost our...Read More »
3 of 17 | Posted by: Lynn Kemmerlin Quinn

“I am so sorry for your loss! You are in my thoughts and praying God gives you peace. Pam is now whole again and out of her pain. God said it is now...Read More »
4 of 17 | Posted by: Marie Foreman - Virginia Beach, VA

“God Bless and Keep you, 'til we meet again.... ”
5 of 17 | Posted by: Marsha Fink - Portsmouth, VA

“My name is Kim, I am a co-worker with Pam's sister Deedee. Through Deedee, I felt like I knew Pam personally and feel great sorrow for your loss. At...Read More »
6 of 17 | Posted by: Kim Cassell - Virginia Beach, VA

“To Pam's Family, I am sadden to hear of Pam's passing. May she be with our heavenly father in eternal peace. May God Bless her family and friends...Read More »
7 of 17 | Posted by: Albert White - Chesapeake, VA

“We will always remember Pam as Pam. Rest in peace sweetie ”
8 of 17 | Posted by: CHERRI RANDY CATUSKA - portsmouth, VA

“Sarah, John & DeeDee, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. ”
9 of 17 | Posted by: Melissa Pierce - Windsor, VA

“Pam is our niece and it saddens us so for her to depart from us so soon. It is our prayer that our family will find comfort and peace in our...Read More »
10 of 17 | Posted by: Connie & Tom Raby - Saint Marys, GA

“I was deeply saddened to her about Pam's passing.We went to high school together and I had the pleasure of working with her as a medic at both...Read More »
11 of 17 | Posted by: Lee Sebrell - portsmouth, VA

“Pam and I were neighbors in Sterling Point for years. She will be greatly missed. She put up such a brave battle, but now she is at peace. Thoughts...Read More »
12 of 17 | Posted by: Pat - Portsmouth, VA

“Loved in life.. cherished in death.... ”
13 of 17 | Posted by: Jane - Chesapeake, VA

“Pam was someone who was always full of energy and laughter. She was taken away from her family much too soon. She will be missed dearly. ”
14 of 17 | Posted by: Linda Nichols - Norfolk, VA

“Prayers from my family to yours at this difficult time. ”
15 of 17 | Posted by: Lee Ann Hellman - Virginia Beach, VA

“I worked with Pam for a little over a year at Waste Industries in Norfolk, VA. I loved working with Pam she was always pleasant and a darn good sales...Read More »
16 of 17 | Posted by: Linda Mapp - Virgiia Beach, VA

“Pam was one of my oldest and dearest friends. No matter where I was or what I was doing, we could always just pick up the phone and at the end of...Read More »
17 of 17 | Posted by: Laura Ryan-Floyd - Kingwood, TX


Pamela (Pam) Raby Killian passed away January 18, 2013, at her home surrounded by family after a long battle with pancreatic cancer. Born June 30, 1962 in Portsmouth to Sarah Owens Raby and Richard Sidney Raby, Jr. Pam volunteered as an EMT at the Bennett's Creek Rescue Squad in Suffolk, loved to craft, and enjoyed cooking. Pam will be remembered by her husband, Freddie Killian, Jr. estranged; a daughter, Tara Dawn Keel Blanton (Jeff) and her father, James Keel, III; a son, Robert Scott Clark and a stepson, Jeffery Clark, Jr. and their father, Jeffery Clark, Sr.; mother and stepfather, John and Sarah Owens Languell; father and stepmother, Richard and Sherrie Raby; sisters, Debora Kay Raby Coffield (Cecil), Kimberly Kelly (Steve), Liz Todak (Troy), Allison Miller (Jake); brothers, Richard Raby, III (Barbara), and Shane Raby (Liz); a grandson Theodore Blanton, which was her pride and joy, her nieces and nephews and many other family and friends. The family will receive friends Tuesday from 7 p.m. till 8:30 p.m. at Loving Funeral Home in Portsmouth. A memorial service will be held at Meadowbrook Memorial Gardens in Suffolk at Noon on Wednesday.

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