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...."For that dash represents all the time that she spent alive on earth and now only those who loved her know what that little line is worth...So when your eulogy is being read with your life's actions to rehash. would you be proud of the things they say about how you spent your dash?" Yes you would. Peace for you,Penny and Harry.2f

Posted by: Robert C Fitzpatrick - Westmore, VT - Friend   Feb 19, 2014

I am truly saddened to learn of Pamela's passing. I have very fond memories of her back in Wellesley when we were in 6th and 7th grade and she was running around with Sally Spilman (Macias). She had a dynamic personality and a smile that could light up a room. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family after this very difficult struggle. I am sure that she is looking down at each and every one of her family with great pride and you will see signs of her support during times of difficulty.

Posted by: Andrew Hague - Miami, FL - Childhood friend   May 17, 2013

I was no more than a casual friend of Pam's. What always amazed me about Pam in High School was that she was accessible with an infectious, outgoing personality and joy about everyday life. I would see her on the school bus sometimes and she was always smiling and joking and talking among many different groups of people.

So much of Wellesley Life was cliches when we were teenagers. Pam seemed to be beyond that in many ways..

I only learned

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Posted by: John Watson - Wellesley, MA - casual friend   Jan 23, 2013

Dear Chris, Trinity, Ashley and Chris,
I first met the Pooley family when we shared car pool duties to the Carroll School. It was a long drive to and fro and Nicole often rode up front with Mrs. Pooley. Pam christened my Nicole her "Nikkers", a nickname that still applies. She had the knack for getting my very shy, reticent daughter to open up and tell her everything: all the latest campus gossip, how each kid in the car pool and

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Posted by: Nancy Wilde - friend   Jan 08, 2013

To the Pooley Family,
Although I haven't seen you in forever I always stayed informed of events through Kathy Taylor.
I wish you all strength and love now and forever.
Keep the Faith
Love Anne Denyer.....
little red house behind Scottish Lion resident

Posted by: A friend   Jan 07, 2013

Thank you, Chris, for such a beautiful picture of Pamela's life. We feel like we know her so much better. We will all miss her.

Posted by: David and Lyn Hadden - Needham, MA - friends   Jan 06, 2013

Thanks for the memories Pam! You are truly Missed. Love hugs kisses and prayers,Maureen

Posted by: Maureen - Buffalo, NY - Cousin   Jan 05, 2013

I can not hear the word "dearie" without thinking of Pamela. I know she called many people that, but it always made me feel special. Though we were not in constant contact over the years, we were always able to pick up right where we left off - a testament to Pamela's caring and devotion to all her friends. She was so proud of her 2 Chris's, Trinity and Ashley - her face shone when she told me how

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Posted by: Donna Cowan - Friend   Jan 04, 2013

Among our greatest blessings,
we count the times spent with the Life-Loving,


Posted by: Doug Pellegrini - Needham, MA - Friend   Jan 04, 2013

what a beautiful family you have created Pamela. I am grateful to have crossed paths with you in this life. may you rest in peace. Love to all the Pooleys.
-Laurie S.

Posted by: Laurie Switzer - Encinitas, CA - friend   Jan 03, 2013